Why Dogs Lick One Person More Than Others

If you live in a multi-person household, you’ve probably noticed your dog seems to have a favorite human when it comes to licking. Maybe you get the slobbery kisses every time you walk in the door, while your partner, son or daughter gets… well, nothing. Is it a sign of true love? Jealousy? Or just a leftover meal on your lips?

Let’s explore the surprising reasons behind why your dog licks one person more than another, and what it says about the bond.

Dogs Use Licking as Communication

Licking is more than just a sweet (and sometimes wet) greeting. Dogs lick to communicate affection, submission, excitement, and curiosity. They learn this language as puppies when licking their mother and littermates helps them bond and signal comfort. Over time, they extend this behavior to the humans they consider part of their “pack.”

When your dog licks you more than anyone else, it can be their way of saying: You’re my favorite person.

Why Your Dog Chooses One Person to Lick More

Taste and Smell Matter

Your skin’s scent, natural oils, and even trace food particles can make you more “lick-worthy” than others. Dogs have a powerful sense of smell, around 100,000 times stronger than ours, so if you’ve recently eaten something tasty or used a lotion they like, you’re more appealing.

Positive Reinforcement

If you react with laughs, pets, or baby talk when your dog licks you, your dog is getting the message that this behavior gets your attention. Over time, your dog will continue to repeat licking you because it’s been rewarded.

Emotional Bonding

Dogs often lick the person they feel closest to. This could be the family member who feeds them, walks them, plays with them, or simply spends the most quality time together. Licking can release feel-good endorphins for your dog, strengthening your emotional connection.

Comfort and Security

If your dog sees you as his or her safe space, licking may be their go-to way of self-soothing. Much like humans might hum or fidget when nervous, a dog might lick their favorite person to relax.

Pack Hierarchy Signals

In dog language, licking can be a sign of respect or submission to a higher-ranking “pack member.” If your dog licks you more than others, they might see you as the leader of their human pack.

Want Your Dog to Lick You More?

If you secretly wish your dog would shower you with more slobbery love, there are a few ways to encourage it:

Spend More Quality Time Together

Dogs tend to lick the people they feel closest to. Extra play sessions, walks, and cuddle time can strengthen your bond.

Be The Person Who Feeds Them

Hand-feeding the occasional treat or being the one who fills their bowl can create positive associations with you.

Stay Calm and Inviting

Dogs are more likely to lick someone when they feel safe and relaxed. Gentle petting, soft tones, and avoiding sudden movements can help.

Reward the Behavior

When your dog does lick you, praise your dog and give your dog a treat or belly rub. Your dog will start connecting licking with good outcomes.

Remember that while more kisses might sound sweet, balance is the key. You don’t want to accidentally encourage excessive licking that could become a habit.

When Licking Becomes Excessive

A little licking is sweet, but constant licking can be a sign of anxiety, boredom, allergies, or even compulsive behavior. If your dog’s licking habits suddenly change or become excessive, check with your vet to rule out medical causes.

How to Handle Your Dogs Licking if It’s Too Much

If You Don’t Mind The Licking: Enjoy the affection! You’ve clearly earned “favorite human” status.

If It’s Too Much: Redirect your dog with a toy, give gentle “no lick” cues, or stand up and walk away when it starts.

Share the Love: Encourage others in your home to interact more by feeding, playing or walking your dog so your dog bonds with everyone.

Final Thoughts

When your dog licks you more than anyone else, it’s usually a mix of scent, taste, habit, and emotional connection. Whether they’re showing affection, seeking comfort, or reinforcing the bond you share, those slobbery kisses are a sign you hold a special place in their heart (and in their tongue’s daily routine).